Should Our Society Talk Sanitary Pads? Mumbaikars Respond To Questions Raised By Akshay's Pad Man
15 Mumbaikars speak to SpotboyE.com and talk about the 'taboo' topic of menstrual cycle and sanitary pads. After all when Akshay Kumar can raise the questions in Pad Man, why can't we just take forward the good deed? Not stars, here's what some of the commoners from Mumbai feel about Pad Man and the issues it deals with. Read on...
Akshay Kumar's
Pad Man raises some pertinent questions on women's menstrual cycles. Do men
know all about the same? Do women still feel ashamed to ask for sanitary pads
at the medical store?
Well, we spoke
to 15 people from across Mumbai to ask about these "hard" questions.
And of course, would they watch the movie or not! Here's what they had to
say...
Madhu Bhatia
Mehta (Medical Professional)
Yes. I think the
society should be aware of pads and all that women go through during periods.
Our society thinks it's a bad thing. Especially in villages, it's more than
that. They don't allow women to enter the kitchen also and make them sit in one
corner as if they have committed some sin. It's a very natural process and
periods are God's gift to women. It's nothing that we women have created on our
own.
I think it's
really good that the whole society should be aware of this how a woman goes
through these 5 painful days. In fact, the society should support the women in
these days instead of treating them as social outcastes.
Of course there
should not be any tax on pads. It's for all women over the world - the rich and
the poor. In fact, it should be made available at a reasonable rate, because this
is a universal need of every woman.
Aditya Sharma
(IT Professional)
I believe it's a
positive step towards breaking the taboo that has been in our country for
years. For centuries women have been calling periods everything apart from
their real name. Let's begin by calling
'periods' periods.
Like
acknowledging the fact that all women bleed every month for 4-5 days is
something that shouldn’t be hidden. The irony is everyone knows about it! So if
Pad Man breaks the stigma of periods in our country we should welcome it and
moreover, accept it.
But on the other
hand, the problem of periods cannot be solved by taking a pad and posting it
online. It's much deep rooted. Over 90% of women cannot access sanitary napkins
and do not have much of a choice. The pads that are made available levy taxes,
which make pads unaffordable for the lower middle class strata.
But, I would
still like to believe this movie can make us aware of the very fact that by not
letting women go to temples, lie on bed, or something as simple as touching a
pickle, won't solve anything – but educating them and giving them hygienic and
economical sanitary options will. I hope people will look at the movie in the
right manner.
Rupal Gune
(Public Relations)
The issue discussed in Pad Man is interesting, provided the message in the film is clear. I hope the subject is the hero and not the actor.
Awareness on menstruation has suddenly become the hot topic, don't know why. Also other actors holding the sanitary napkin and posting on social media makes no sense.
I would love to go for the film but tickets are just too expensive.
Nishi Rath
(Corporate Communications)
For years,
women, especially in rural areas and low income groups have been affected by
the unavailability of sanitary pads for several reasons. It's good to see that
finally someone has come forward to highlight this issue. People should stop
considering this subject as a taboo and realise that it is just a natural
process and not something to be ashamed of.
I definitely
want to watch the movie.
Sheetal Shah
(Senior Process Outsourcing Professional)
It's high time
to discuss these types of issues in public. India is progressing. Also,
government should change the GST slab to zero on pads only then will it reach
all corners of India. If there is no shame about talking of motherhood, then
why shy while talking about pads and menstrual cycles? It's a natural process
created for all women. It’s nothing to be ashamed of.
Yes, I will be
going for the movie.
Diksha
Punjabi (Public Relations)
The issue raised
in the movie Pad Man, is a concern not restricted to just one woman. It entails
the entire society. Also, it's not a lifestyle option. Women have to deal with
it. It's something we cannot ignore.
Working ladies
have been travelling and moving around through the day, and all we want is to
have a hygienic lifestyle. It's not an issue that we need to hide from. It's
not something that we should think as taboo. You cannot isolate women from
their daily duties of life for 3 days, or howsoever number of days it is.
Hygiene for a
lady is something that has to be given to her without any questions asked. It's
amazing how this movie has brought a lot of attention to this particular cause.
There is so much of positivity coming around it.
I will surely go
and watch the movie as it concerns me. Also, the energy that the movie has got
among the people is amazing. It's more of edu-tainment for me, and hence I will
surely watch it.
Chani Singh
(Radio Professional)
There are many
areas in our country which are still deprived of basics, such as electricity,
sewage system, etc. People in these areas are living as primitives. As a
country having a 48.5% women population, the topic of mensuration has been a
taboo. Most people are unaware of the way of keeping oneself hygienic. It is
very important to openly discuss and spread awareness about it. It's a natural
process, showing a woman's fertility. It should be celebrated not hidden.
There
are various types of things that can be used during menstruation – pads being
one of the widely used ones. Periods come every month. Pads should thus be
affordable and with no tax whatsoever. I also hope that the bigger companies
take this up a CSR activity and distribute or contribute pads not just in rural
but in urban areas as well. Proper disposal should also be taught. Awareness
has to be spread. And that can happen only if we are open about the subject.
Movies are a
wonderful way to spread awareness. Hence, Pad Man is a movie worth watching.
Movies reach the remotest part of the country, therefore proving it to be a
wonderful medium.
Garima Bhatia
(Digital Banker)
The topic
discussed in Pad Man is necessary. Because we can't spend entire lives being
embarrassed about a natural body function. Also, it cannot be treated as a
taboo.
But the fact
that a male actor is needed to highlight a women's health topic is strange,
however, a good idea.
And tax on
sanitary napkins or tampons is one very stupid move by the government.
I will surely go to watch the film. Possibly, I will take a couple of male
friends along with me – especially the ones those are queasy about the whole
topic.
Sheeba Shukla
(Public Relations)
Yes, I will
definitely watch Pad Man. Reason being it's Akshay Kumar and R Balki. Also, I
don't know much about this man who made a woman's life so easy and hygienic,
Mr. Arunachalam Muruganatham. So I would want to know more about him.
As we have seen
in Toilet - Ek Prem Katha, the subject was quite preachy and so is Pad Man, but
with this great duo (Balki & Kumar) I feel it will have a pinch of humour,
drama and pathos.
Bollywood has
traditionally adapted such topics in the past, but nowadays it's finding
stories with a social message which are increasingly being accepted by
audiences. I am excited about Pad Man.
Anisha
Jenyfer Solomon (Writer)
It's high time
we stop being silent about issues such as periods, rape or sex. The young
generation need to know these things exist. Kids should be educated enough at
young age. Girls need to know that there's nothing embarrassing about periods
and boys need to know the same.
There shouldn't
be any tax on sanitary pads, etc because it is a natural process. It's almost
like putting tax on breathing. Can you stop that? It's not really a choice.
Therefore, applying tax on necessary things like sanitary pads shows how
restricted and uneducated our government is.
However, I don't
stand by the act of celebrities posing with pads just for the sake of it. I
would love to know what happens after the celebrities pose with it. Mostly they
go to the bin. It's sheer wastage.
Talking of the
film, I would surely want to watch it.
Seema Singh
(Television Anchor)
I have come across many incidents where male
teachers have been uncomfortable teaching menstruation to the class. In fact,
few female teachers also hesitate to openly discuss this scientific behaviour
of the body as not only girls but boys are also sitting in the same class.
I think Akshay Kumar's idea of getting Pad Man
to educate the society will definitely help us also to get open and discuss
menstruation.
I will take my students to watch Pad Man.
Pooja Singh (Senior Celebrity Manager)
I totally support the issue discussed and
brought forward in public through Pad Man. It is highly needed now for the
family to understand the pain borne by their daughters, wives and mothers.
Still being in
the modern era we girls are not so comfortable discussing on menstruation or
showing the pain in front of our fathers, brothers and male friends. We don't
keep our sanitary napkins openly in our house – either we hide it or keep it
locked in cupboards.
And we still
feel ashamed asking for pads to the shopkeeper. So I appreciate Akshay Kumar
for bringing such issues in public and I have confidence that after watching
this movie, our mentality will genuinely change and our coming female
generation will not face this issue as we did.
I will definitely watch the movie with my whole family. May I add that the
government should make the movie tax free.
Himanshu Singh (MBA Graduate Student)
The issue discussed in Pad Man is still a serious problem in rural and some
semi-urban areas where societies don’t accept such kind of conversations. For
decades now, there has been a major stigma attached to the discussion of
menstrual troubles in our country. This, in a country where barely 12% of our
menstruating women use sanitary pads!
While most women
are not allowed to visit temples during their periods, others are treated as
untouchables within the premises of their own houses. Ridiculous!
This movie will surely bring some change in our society.
Zarina Merchant (Personal Secretary)
The whole
menstrual process is as natural as eating, drinking and sleeping yet we fear
even talking about it openly. Poverty, inadequate sanitary facilities, lack of
health education and the culture of silence created by our ancestors creates an
environment in which females are denied their basic right to stay clean.
I will watch the film hundred per cent.
Harshit Vora
(Business Development Manager)
I think Akshay Kumar always comes up with a subject which not only entertains
the society but also educates. It will be exciting to watch the movie being a
guy. As a guy, it's always a question in our minds that what menstruation
actually is.
I belong to a
Marwari family where it's still a taboo. I have noticed my mother and sisters
to be uncomfortable in those days. As they don't go to temple, don't touch
pickles, don't work.
I am hoping to get all the answers in the film.