Every Sunday, Alia Used To Dance At Home To A Hit Song
On Mother's Day, Soni Razdan tells us all about her younger daughter who has become a hot star

Did you want a son/daughter when you were pregnant for the second time?
I have a sister and we share a very strong bond. I wanted a sister for my daughter Shaheen. I was delighted that my second baby too was a girl. I named her Alia, which means 'beautiful' in Russian.

Let's talk about Alia's childhood days...

Let's talk about Alia's childhood days...
Between Shaheen and her, she was the easier one--- funny, friendly, happy-go-lucky. She may not have been a genius, but she loved going to school. Teachers loved her. She was a model daughter until she turned 14. I had never had any conflict with her till then. Suddenly I began to see some teenage tantrums. I was quite surprised because she hadn't shown that side of her to me. She would lock herself in the room and cry, and I used to get terribly worried. It is very natural for a teenager to be moody or get depressed or cry... but the change in her came rather out of the blue. So, I was quite taken aback (pauses).
Go on...
Alia never tells her problems to us. She wants to handle them herself. This is one trait in her which even her friends find it very disconcerting. Alia is a closed book.Oh yes. Nothing else but an actress. She was a born performer. Every Sunday she used to dance to one hit song in front of Mahesh, Shaheen and I (laughs).

Are you serious?
Yeah. Her friends used to join in, and we used to have a full-on show. And she wouldn't stop till the full song was over.
And then Student of the Year (SOTY) happened...
I still can't forget the day when I got a call from Karan Johar's office that he wanted to meet us for a film. Alia and I were leaving for a trek in the Himalayas. Her plans to go abroad for higher studies and lose weight were yet to be put into action. When we left to meet Karan, I had categorically told her that she shouldn't count her chickens before they are hatched. Thankfully, she had her head on her shoulders.

That's where Mahesh comes in. He has often given her a lecture on how actors have got carried away and faced undesirable consequences.
No, Karan was very gentle with his new cast.
I accompanied Alia on every shoot.
What?!
(Laughs) Yeah, Karan had asked me to be around.
Do you still land up on the sets?
No way. I stopped accompanying her when she started work on Highway. She said she wanted to be on her own.
Do Mahesh and you set time limits for her when she is out with her friends?
No, how can that happen now?
Is she more close to you or her father?Is there a Mahesh Bhatt side to Alia?
Yes. Alia relies on her sister to keep her grounded. Shaheen is very pragmatic, smart and understanding.
No, not anymore.
Alia is planning to shift out isn't she?
Yeah, but I don't want her to go so soon. I still take care of many things in her life. I even manage her finances.
Alu.

What you dislike about her the most?
She doesn't discuss things with me. She should talk to me about everything.
She is unaffected by praise and criticism.
I ensure that she gets the right food to maintain her weight. Many times we make separate food for her as per her diet plan. A lot of things can happen if one's diet goes topsy-turvy. Hair start falling if you stop eating.

Did that happen with Alia?
Yes.
Will Alia return to her studies?
I don't think so, but she just might go abroad for a year and do some course related to fine arts.
Do you have a chat with her when she is written about for her link-ups?
I am not an indulgent mother who demands answers for everything. Aisa to kuch nahin likha gaya hai that I need to question her.
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I don't think so, but she just might go abroad for a year and do some course related to fine arts.
Do you have a chat with her when she is written about for her link-ups?
I am not an indulgent mother who demands answers for everything. Aisa to kuch nahin likha gaya hai that I need to question her.
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