'Gossip Never Entered Our Conversation', Manish Malhotra Pens An Emotional Letter On Sridevi
Fashion designer Manish Malhotra has penned a long emotional letter on his close friend, late Sridevi, recalling their first meeting and how the friendship gradually got thicker...
Manish Malhotra
will never get over the huge loss of a friend in his life and Bollywood's
iconic actress, late Sridevi, who passed away on February 24 in Dubai.
Sridevi And Manish Malhotra
The ace designer,
while remembering his dear friend, has penned a long emotional letter about the
diva, describing how they met for the first time and how their friendship grew
stronger over years.
Here's his
letter:
“I must have been
in college when I first watched Himmatwala (1983), and I was
instantly enamoured. Be it those twinkling eyes or her poise, I loved
everything about Sridevi. I finally met her a few years later, when Rakesh
Shrestha, legendary photographer of the time, introduced us. I remember waiting
anxiously at Mumbai’s Mehboob Studio as she wrapped up a song sequence in a
striking red Amrapali costume alongside Vinod Khanna. She greeted you with
genuine kindness, but one couldn’t help notice how reserved she was. She barely
spoke, in fact. She, however, came to life when the camera started rolling. It
was almost as if the camera was her most intimate friend.
Boney Kapoor With Sridevi And Daughters Janhvi And Khushi
I saw her next
when she asked to meet me at the Centaur Hotel—she wanted me to design a
sweater for her role in Khuda Gawah (1992) and style a song in Aadmi Aur Apsara
(1991). Before I knew it, I, all of 23, was on a flight to Chennai carrying two
black and gold jackets, for her and Chiranjeevi Sir.
It was only in
1993, with Gumrah, that our work relationship really took flight. I recall a
time when she tried on an outfit, and it didn’t look quite right. Still new to
the industry, I refrained from commenting, but my eyes gave my thoughts away.
She coerced the truth out of me. In little ways, she made you feel your opinion
mattered, especially when it came from a place of truth.
During Judaai
(1997), she went from iconic actor to dear friend. I remember it like it was
yesterday—we were in the elevator of a Las Vegas hotel when she confessed she
wasn’t sure about working in films anymore. I was so taken by her, I couldn’t
believe this could be it. But even when she stopped acting, it was on a happy
note—she wanted to get married and start a family. During that 15-year gap,
from Judaai to when she returned to the silver screen in English Vinglish
(2012), we remained in touch. We became particularly close in the last seven
years. Whether attending all my shows or being a part of my niece’s wedding,
she always returned the love, loyalty and admiration I had for her.
Sridevi With Manish Malhotra
I always called
her ma’am. Over the years, I learnt much from her, whether a simple sartorial
trick—she taught me that sleeves sans lining were more flattering on screen—or
giving a task your unwavering focus. This quality of not believing in half
measures extended to her personal life too, and that’s something I have tried
to imbibe and emulate. As a wife, friend and mother to two lovely girls, she
always gave her 200 per cent. She was, and I think will forever be, Boney ji,
Janhvi and Khushi’s best friend.
It’s funny how
life comes full circle. I used to make little cholis and ghagras for the girls
when they were younger. Now I’m working with Janhvi on her debut. Much like her
mother, she’s a bundle of talent and discipline. I was very keen that Karan
[Johar] sign her, because when you have good people in your life, you want them
to get together. Some of the best relationships in my life are a result of my
friendship with her. It was through her that I met Yash Johar (my favourite
producer) and his son Karan, who is now my closest friend, and also began
longstanding associations with Ram Gopal Varma and Boney Kapoor’s production
houses.
Now, when I look
back, I realise gossip never entered our conversations. We talked about
clothes, food, movies—all the good things in life. She never wished ill upon
anyone, or remarked upon her contemporaries. When it came to her own work, she
treated commercial and art-house cinema with equal grace—it didn’t matter if it
was a silly scene, a song or a path-breaking performance. If she committed to
something, it deserved respect.
Manish Malhotra With Sridevi
She now leaves
behind a legacy of exceptional work. I want the world to remember her as who
she was—an iconic actor, an exceptional person, someone who had her mind and
her heart in the right place. This is the first time I’ve lost someone so
close, and it feels surreal. I’d known her for 28 years. We were at a wedding
together and then, out of nowhere, her sister Srilatha was handing me a silk
sari for her funeral. I spoke to her the night she passed away. We talked about
everything under the sun, from Janhvi’s film, how beautiful Khushi looked at
the wedding to even what she had eaten earlier that day. Even now, so many days
later, I still expect my phone to ring, and to hear her discuss an outfit or a
project which we can work on together.”
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