Remember Deepika Padukone’s heartfelt reading of her
father, Prakash Padukone’s letter at Filmfare Awards in February this year? The
actress, who went up on stage to receive the award for the Best Actress (Piku),
left many teary eyed when she read the letter aloud.
Now, the same letter has found its way to school
textbooks. The actress’ fan posted the news on Twitter. She wrote,"There's
a whole chapter on @padukoneprakash's letter to @deepikapadukone and
@anishapadukone in my brother's Textbook!"
There's a whole chapter on @padukoneprakash's letter to @deepikapadukone and @anishapadukone in my brother's Textbook! 😍 💯💘 pic.twitter.com/lj4odwLaSe
— Deepika Padukone ❤ (@KinjalJogidas) 7 August 2017
An elated Deepika replied and wrote, "WOW!!!"
WOW!!! https://t.co/4YzqiHPfUS
— Deepika Padukone (@deepikapadukone) 7 August 2017
To rewind, the letter reads:
Dear Deepika & Anisha,
"As you stand on the threshold of life’s journey, I want
to share with you some lessons that life has taught me. Decades ago, as a
little boy growing up in Bangalore, I started my tryst with badminton. In those
days, there were no stadiums and courts where sports people could train. Our
badminton court was the wedding hall of the Canara Union Bank near our house,
and it was there that I learned everything about the game. Every day, we would
wait to see if there was a function in the hall, and if there was none, we
would rush there after school to play to our hearts’ content. Looking back, I
realise that the most important thing about my childhood and adolescent years
was my refusal to complain about a lot in life. I was thankful for the few
hours a week we had the opportunity to hit the shuttle back and forth. In fact,
the foundation on which I based my career and my life was the refusal to whinge
or whine about anything. And that is what I want to tell you my children, that
there is no substitute for perseverance, hardwork, determination and passion
for what you choose to do. If you love what you do, nothing else matters —
neither awards nor compensation, not even the gratification of seeing your face
in newspapers or television. When I won the All England Championship, the prize
money in badminton became significant — £3,000 — a huge amount in those days.
But that did not distract me from the sheer joy of having been instrumental in
putting India on the global map of this game. Deepika, at eighteen, when you
told us that you wanted to shift to Mumbai for a career in modeling, we felt
you were too young and too inexperienced to be alone in a big city and in an
industry we knew nothing about. In the end, we decided to let you follow your
heart and thought it would be cruel to not give our child the opportunity to go
after a dream that she lived and breathed for. If you succeeded, it would make
us proud, but even if you didn’t, you would not have any regrets that you did
not try. Deepika, I have learned that you can’t always win in life, that
everything you want might not come your way. That events don’t always
turn out as you want them to. To win some, you have to lose some. You have to
learn to take life’s ups and downs in your stride. The amount of effort that I
put in my game never varied from the first day till my retirement. Even during
my toughest times, I focused on what I had, instead of dwelling on what I did
not. I had the ability to make the best of the worst circumstances and remain
steadfast to my goal. Remember how I constantly tell you both about the
importance of making your way up in the world without waiting for your parents
to pull strings?"
Picture Perfect: Deepika Padukone With Parents Prakash & Ujjala And Sister Anisha
The letter further read, "I believe it is best for children to work hard to make their
dreams come true and to not have things handed to them on a platter. When you
are home visiting us, Deepika, you make your own bed, clear the table after meals,
and sleep on the floor if there are guests at home. If you occasionally wonder
why we refuse to treat you like a star, it is because you are our daughter
first and a film star later. The cameras that follow you everywhere and the arc
lights will eventually fade and what will remain is the real world. Strive to
generate positivity around you even though you are too new and too small a
player to effect a big change. You are in an industry where there’s always
going to be big money, but I believe that it is important to try to be the best
in whatever you do regardless of the money. The things that really matter in
life are relationships, honesty, respect for your parents and elders. Material
success is important, not fundamental to happiness and peace of mind. I can’t
tell you enough about the rejuvenating power of prayers and a little faith.
Spare a few minutes of your day to close your eyes and meditate, to think about
God and you will see how much faith in His power will strengthen you. In the
end, when your career is behind you, what remains is family, the friends that
you have made. Live a life that is healthy and one that will allow you to live
with your own conscience. Everything else is transient. And remember, no matter
what, we are always going to be there for you."
Lovingly,
Pappa
This is some great teaching. Isn’t it?
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